It is one thing to be “loved and wanted, accepted and cherished” in general and it is another thing to receive that kind of devotion in the sexual sphere. Photo from Component #3: Deep Sexual and Erotic Intimacy While this component may sound a bit more predictable, what does it actually mean though apart from engaging in sex? In the study, one woman described this as feeling “loved and wanted, accepted and cherished” by her husband (Kleinplatz et al., 2009). It may seem simplistic but it rings true time, investment, and care for one another serve to deepen emotional connections which then intensify the sexual experience. Sue Johnson has prescribed caregiving and attention to one’s spouse or partner (Johnson & Zucarini, 2010). In order to create this deep connection, Dr. That’s right, hook-ups probably aren’t going to result in truly great sex, but sex in a relationship where you have invested time, energy, and emotion will. Component #2: Connection, Alignment, and Being in Synch This implies a depth of connection. Be mentally there as you engage in the experience of sex with your loved one. In other words, don’t be thinking about the pile of dishes in the sink or how the lawn needs to be mowed or about problems at work. Photo from Component #1: Being Present, Focused, and Embodied The first and most commonly reported component identified was “being present, focused and embodied” during the sexual experience (Kleinplatz et al., 2009). The researchers found that “great sex” is composed of seven major components with two minor components or considerations (Kleinplatz et al., 2009). Great sex has only a little to do with orgasm and nothing to do with exotic sex positions. Is it the number of orgasms? What is it? Researchers have asked this same question and the results might surprise you. What really constitutes great sex though? Sexual positions? Let’s be honest, not all of us are Olympic gymnasts so there are really only so many variations of the same basic, and frankly more comfortable, positions. Written by Emma Smith We’ve all seen the tabloids at the grocery store checkout, “best sex of your life!!!” or “positions that will make him hot” and other variations of the same message that are frequent attention grabbers on the covers of Cosmopolitan magazine and others of the like.
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